Look.  See what you see, not what someone tells you that you see.

     What you observe is what you observe. Look at things and life and others directly, not through any cloud of prejudice, curtain of fear or the interpretation of another.

     Instead of arguing with others, get them to look.  The most flagrant lies can be punctured, the greatest pretenses can be exposed, the most intricate puzzels can be resolved and the most remarkable revelations can occur, simply by gently insisting that someone look.

     L. Ron Hubbard